I’m thankful that my boys still like spending time with me. The sentence I just wrote does not do justice to the gratefulness I feel inside me right now as I consider how blessed I am to be the father of my three sons.
Today was the last Saturday of Spring Break and since we hadn’t done anything all week, I knew we needed to get out of the house and do something fun. We didn’t do anything spectacular, but we had a good time together.
We were simply okay with just being.
Shoe shopping. Check.
Chipotle. Lunch was good.
MK Nature Center. Awesome time.
Old Idaho State Penitentiary. Creepy and a good life lesson for my boys to never break the law.
Ann Morrison Park. Frisbee. Whiffle Ball. Fantastic.
In all these things, the most important part was simply being together.
I am convinced that as families we need more time set aside for days like this. Simple. Together. Just being with each other.
It is what my soul needed today.
I’m reminded of the reality in our world that there are so many things after our time and attention. We are pulled in so many directions. This isn’t a good trend, and in my most humble opinion our families are suffering because of this reality.
I think some re-evaluation as a society needs to happen. I know, lofty goals. I’m starting with my family though and my circle of influence.
There are things getting in the way of family time I am not sharing about because I am still formulating my thoughts. Another post perhaps. For now, think through your schedule and consider what needs to change in order for more frequent family time to occur.
I’m grateful for today, and that my boys like spending time with me.